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Bobby Brown Breaks Silence; Says “I’m Not The Reason Whitney’s Gone”



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#1 Terrence

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 06:01 PM



Bobby Brown Breaks Silence; Says “I’m Not The Reason Whitney’s Gone”


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It’s been almost three months since Whitney Houston tragically passed away. And, save for headlines generated at her funeral along with those from a drink-driving arrest, estranged ex Bobby Brown has maintained a notable silence. Until now.
Sitting down with Matt Lauer on the Today Show, Brown finally opened up about his former wife’s demise, being blamed for it, his relationship with daughter Bobbi Kristina, his relationship with her, and a whole lot more.
Set to air on Wednesday, you can peep interesting soundbites from the feature below …

Via Today Show:
When asked about the last time he saw Houston, a week or so before she died, Brown says the iconic singer “had this glow about her that was just, you know, incredible. I’m saying to myself, you know, ‘She must be … she must be doing really well,’ because she looked really well.”
Brown says Houston, to whom he was married for 15 years, “looked like she was in a good place.”
Lauer asks Brown how he took the news that cocaine was a likely contributor to the death of Houston, 48, who was found in a bathtub in a Beverly Hills hotel on Feb. 11.
“I was hurt. I was hurt … because, you know, me being off of narcotics for the last seven years, I felt that she was, you know, I didn’t know she was struggling with it still. But at the same time, you know, listen, it’s a hard fight. It’s a hard fight to, you know, maintain sobriety that way.”
Based on his own feelings and how she appeared when he last saw her, Brown theorizes that that one day of cocaine use — not the effects of longterm use — was enough to kill Houston. “It had to be that one, because that’s all it takes,” Brown said. “One hit, you know … it could definitely take your life away from you. And, unfortunately, that was it.”
Lauer pressed the 43-year-old R&B star on the talk after Houston’s death. “If I heard it once, I heard it a hundred times, and I know you heard it too,” Lauer said. “Fans, people who say they were close to Whitney, say her life went downhill when she met Bobby Brown. How does it make you feel when you hear it?”
“It makes me feel terrible,” Brown said. “But you know, I know differently. I think if anyone ever knew us, if anybody ever spent time around us instead of time lookin’ through the bubble, they would know how we felt about each other. They would know how happy we were together.”
Brown says the couple got a wakeup call from starring in the reality TV series “Being Bobby Brown.” “We looked at the bubble and saw ourselves. We was able to see what other people were saying about us, you know? We was able to see that our drug use had affected our relationship, had affected the love that we felt for each other.”
But when asked by Lauer about the popular perception that he is the one responsible for getting Houston hooked on drugs, Brown says, “not true.”
“I didn’t get high [on narcotics] before I met Whitney,” Brown said. “I smoked weed, I drank the beer, but no, I wasn’t the one that got Whitney on drugs at all.” He says drugs were a part of the singer’s life “way before” they got together.
“It’s just … it’s just unexplainable how one could, you know, [say that I] got her addicted to drugs. I’m not the reason she’s gone,” Brown said.

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LaPrincia said on Facebook that this airs on Wednesday.

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#2 jersey

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 07:07 PM

oh, whatever Bobby. who cares how you and Whitney felt about one another. It still doesn't change the fact that she's no longer here. He may not be the "reason" but he was definitely a contributing factor. And that was more than enough.

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#3 Every1lovesNippy

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 07:32 PM

Well, who knows if Bobby introduced Whitney to hard drugs, she's not here to tell and he's a known liar. Not to mention that the Behind the Music special made with his participation, stated that at 21, Bobby had developed a habit for cocaine. And Whitney never came to Bobby's defense on this question, though she defended him vigorously on just about every other point, so as far as I am concerned, the jury is still out on this issue, whatever Bobby says.

But, it sure seems as if Bobby has forgotten all the terrible things he did do that would make anyone need a high to survive in a marriage with him. The list could go on and on. I just don't see why Bobby thinks it matters whether Whitney had tried coke before she met him as it is pretty clear that he treated her badly and she went downhill a few years after they married. He was just toxic for her, dangerous and harmful, despite the fact that she adored him. So as far as I am concerned, Bobby needs to put away that victim card he's waving and take responsibility for his part in making Whitney's live a living hell.

No Bobby, did not drown her, but he did not lift her up and love her as a real man would; he always loved himself more. So, as far as I am concerned, Whitney may have loved Bobby with all her heart, but he treated her wrong in so many ways that he will never get a pass from me. I wish him peace as he moves on with his life, but I don't want to hear that he has no blame for the sadness in Whitney's life. I'm just not having it.

#4 jersey

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 07:35 PM

Even if we go with the theory that Bobby is not the reason Whitney's gone, can he honestly sit there and say that their meeting was not the demise of Whitney Houston?

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#5 linxz

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 08:30 PM

I am going to get slack for this but here goes Whitney was her own woman she could do what she wanted regardless of if he introduced her to drugs or not she could of said no. When she recognised the type of person she was she could of left I know we all love Whitney but we as human beings are responsible for our own actions.

#6 jersey

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Posted 30 April 2012 - 09:50 PM

View Postlinxz, on 30 April 2012 - 08:30 PM, said:

I am going to get slack for this but here goes Whitney was her own woman she could do what she wanted regardless of if he introduced her to drugs or not she could of said no. When she recognised the type of person she was she could of left I know we all love Whitney but we as human beings are responsible for our own actions.

She could have left?! Are you kidding me?! In addition to the internal, psychological barriers and external, social barriers that women face, researchers have found that the cyclical pattern of psychological experiences that occur within a volatile relationship itself help keep women trapped in it.

If you can learn anything from Whitney's death is that even she was not "superhuman".

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#7 salute88

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 01:12 AM

*sigh* I just wished in her absence that people would stop trying to focus on Whitney and what she did, said, felt, smoked, etc. and own what they did. It would be nice to hear Bobby talking about what he did do not enlightening the world on what she did. She is dead and cannot defend herself against the lies or embrace her own truth so why even discuss it. Bobby has been getting a bad rap for years and has been arrested several times for things he DID do! It's not like after her death it was his first time in the media and getting a bad rap. in fact, I am sure it's not even his first time having lies spread about him. What is the point of defending himself by tarnishing her name? If you want to do an interview I feel you should discuss yourself and not the deceased. You wanna mention Whitney? great. Tell how you spit on her, cheated on her, probably stole from her and used her.

Furthermore I have NOT heard people blaming Bobby for her death. The coroners report made the cause clear and Bobby's name was not on it. He wasn't even in town and had been divorced from her for a few years and two rehabs stints later so no one thought he was responsible. In fact, most people in her circle and family went out their way to be clear that he wasn't responsible. All of this vindicating Bobby seems to be a facade for the true intention which is to harm her legacy. What educated person at the news of her death actually thought about Bobby? What fan actually cared when faced with the reality of her death? NONE. Bobby have a seat and don't get back up again. Scoot over for everyone else who feels the need to protect you ans speak out , yet never spoke out for Whitney and defended her name in the media against your actions.

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#8 richardlondon

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 04:02 AM

I accept that Bobby may not have introduced her to drugs, but he was a part of a lifestyle that had narcotics at its centre. They both made choices.

Many men would have lifted her above this. Like many others, he didn't have the strength or wisdom to do this.

A terrible thing to live with, but perhaps not a unique situation, apart from the profile of this tragedy.

#9 nip4py1

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 06:52 AM

listen .. he just needs to be classy and don't say anything anymore..

Whitney respected him by NOT telling all the bad stuff ( maybe too avoid it would be bad for her as well considering the 2 sides to a story) they where married.. they loved each other... they made a mess out of there marriage got divorced for all whatever reasons and went there own ways.. that's all he needs to say when questions r asked.. or I would prefer : no comment!

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#10 Every1lovesNippy

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 08:57 AM

View Postsalute88, on 01 May 2012 - 01:12 AM, said:

*sigh* I just wished in her absence that people would stop trying to focus on Whitney and what she did, said, felt, smoked, etc. and own what they did. It would be nice to hear Bobby talking about what he did do not enlightening the world on what she did. She is dead and cannot defend herself against the lies or embrace her own truth so why even discuss it. Bobby has been getting a bad rap for years and has been arrested several times for things he DID do! It's not like after her death it was his first time in the media and getting a bad rap. in fact, I am sure it's not even his first time having lies spread about him. What is the point of defending himself by tarnishing her name? If you want to do an interview I feel you should discuss yourself and not the deceased. You wanna mention Whitney? great. Tell how you spit on her, cheated on her, probably stole from her and used her.

Furthermore I have NOT heard people blaming Bobby for her death. The coroners report made the cause clear and Bobby's name was not on it. He wasn't even in town and had been divorced from her for a few years and two rehabs stints later so no one thought he was responsible. In fact, most people in her circle and family went out their way to be clear that he wasn't responsible. All of this vindicating Bobby seems to be a facade for the true intention which is to harm her legacy. What educated person at the news of her death actually thought about Bobby? What fan actually cared when faced with the reality of her death? NONE. Bobby have a seat and don't get back up again. Scoot over for everyone else who feels the need to protect you ans speak out , yet never spoke out for Whitney and defended her name in the media against your actions.

Well said!

But, again, it's all about trying to get attention for Bobby, just like storming out of Whitney's funeral. Nothing new here. The really sad part is all those other people sitting on the sofa who were fed and clothed and housed by Whitney's generosity all their lives, yet, on her passing, they are sitting next to Bobby lending credence to his lies as he tries to rehabilitate himself by smeering her in death. Even his latest baby momma/fiance/whatever was wined and dined on Whitney's credit card and now has the gall to sit there and try to make Bobby a victim. Bobby is a lost cause, but Whitney loved those kids and I would have hoped they recognized it. smh. They are still young though and may yet come to know better.

#11 PontusFromSweden

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 12:12 PM

oh just go away, shut up and never speak BLEEP!.

#12 LatinNippy24

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 01:33 PM

View PostPontusFromSweden, on 01 May 2012 - 12:12 PM, said:

oh just go away, shut up and never speak BLEEP!.

Simply put and well said. Period. I think this is Bobby's way of trying to gain back respect from the public and make himself relevant again. Whatever!

#13 tms78

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 02:07 PM

Bobby didn't say anything here that we didn't already know. If the Houston family is cool with him, then I am too.

I hope he finds peace from this.

#14 dablack11

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 05:29 PM

When he mentioned the glow she had, I thought about those pics of her when they went out to dinner that week, and how great she really did look.
My thing is this, show respect for her, she's some he claimed to have loved, so why say anything sideways? Leave it alone, if interviewers ask about Whitney, all he has to say is that he's sad, he misses her, what a loss to the world, etc.

Whitney was a grown woman who made her own choices true enough, but there's a thing called INFLUENCE which is not easy to escape esp when u are madly in love with the person doing it.

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Posted 01 May 2012 - 05:31 PM

View Posttms78, on 01 May 2012 - 02:07 PM, said:

Bobby didn't say anything here that we didn't already know. If the Houston family is cool with him, then I am too. I hope he finds peace from this.

The precise reason why I didn't understand the purpose or intent behind the interview. He has already sad he wasn't the reason why she was on drugs, even when she was alive. We heard him and didn't forget. Furthermore, as previously stated no one thought he was the reason.

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