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#16 Every1lovesNippy

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Posted 27 February 2012 - 11:12 PM

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View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 27 February 2012 - 10:34 PM, said:

You know what, I keep staying out of the Clive stuff but I find it odd that everyone is suddenly down Clive's back. This man has had Whitney's back through all the hell and all of it. Just because 1) Clive made a statement about not doing another album untill she could knock everyone out again is not a big deal. You wanna castrate someone for that, start with your family at home (on Whitney-Fan.com. We're all guility of wanting better vocally from Whitney) 2) Clive Davis' name is the only thing in control of that party now. A major corporate conglomerate doesn't just add their name to a party for the sake of BLEEP! and giggles and titles. It's all finanical. Clive doesn't pay for that party entirely out of pocket anymore, it's shared now with NARAS. Trust had Clive paid for that party and could make the shots, that party woulda been cancelled the second he heard. I think people need to get the BLEEP! off Clive's back in all honest about the party. EVERYONE.

Secondly - If the movie rumors are true it makes sense. One of the 100,000 thoughts that went through my head during those first few days was if Clive was gonna jump on the movie production so HE could have control of it so it wasn't a 2 hr movie about BBB & Drug Usuage as the entire world seems to want to focus on the legacy of Whitney Houston. He prolly wants his name on it from the get go so that it can be done the way IT SHOULD BE DONE. Be about the voice, the artistry, the icon, the phenomena. Not the drug addiction and tumultuous marriage that media likes to stay hard about.

Thirdly - His comments were not that strange at the funeral. Everyone deals with death differently. I didn't wanna belive it was all real untill I had to at 12pm, Saturday February 18. At 3:30 PM I watched Whitney's casket be taken off the camera. That's when it was too real for comfort. Whitney & Clive's industry relationship is a legacy in itself. The both of them loved each other very very much.

Lastly I just don't think it's fair that her fans are going for someone she loved so much after she's dead. While all her fans were talking BLEEP! about her voice on the album and how she needs to do A,B,C to X,Y,Z Clive stood there in front of the entire industry and continually gave Whitney the props she deserved and BLEEP! earned. That funeral chat was disrespectable as Rhianna would say on GOT 2 BE REAL. I stopped paying attention anyhow. Should I think none of us are fans because people were having a good old time talking BLEEP! on Clive and everyone else? NO. We all grieve differently. Some are blasting Whitney's music, others can't stand the thought of hearing her in their head let alone blasting her on 40dbz. His controbution at the funeral was a mixed bag and rightfully so. He loved her beyond a business relationship; but also that's their history. I thought what he said was good. I liked that he kept defending her legacy. He's like the one guy always out there having her back for 30 years and couple things open to interpretation and folks wanna start hating on Clive. Ridiculous guys, c'mon!!

I don't think it's nice, I don't think it's fair to suddenly start hating on people because they want someone to be pissed off at because Whitney's dead. I'm pissed off too, I'm taking it out on all the morons in the world that are steppin on my toes the wrong way. I'm not gonna single out someone to vent about.

I don't think Clive is picture perfect either, however I do think it's BLEEP! to see Whitney fans suddenly all bent out of shape over him. The same BLEEP! y'all are doing is the same BLEEP! people did/doing to Whitney. Jumping to conclusions based on BLEEP!. We can jump to conclusions here about Whitney because at least we have enough 411 to put the pieces together (like her really wanting to comeback strong vocally, like her leaving Bobby before the NE article even came out in Mar 06, etc etc etc). I just think it's a big disservice to Whitney.

I'm too upset about Whitney though to put any real effort into my opinions. This is what I have to say about it all and I'm not up for discussing it. Just putting it out there.

I know your response wasnt geared towards me personally, but I stated my reasons for not feeling Clive too much, and it has nothing to do with all the other stuff, I just find it hard to believe that you did not break down when the woman you were supposed to walk the damn red carpet with is dead. This is someone who's back you've had throughout the years and all the other points you mentioned, she is dead, and you did not cry??? I'm sorry, but that is unacceptable. Maybe he held it together for the party, maybe he did cry in private, i dont know, but what I do know is that he did not show anything that night while he made his speech.

Some men are like that. They do their crying in private. My brother held it together to give a great eulogy at my father's funeral when my dad died unexpectedly. I don't think I could have done it. But, for the first time in as long as I can remember, maybe ever, I also saw my brother slobber like a baby, at home, in private, when it was just us kids and my mother was not around. People show emotions differently. Clive and whitney worked closely together for 30 years and he always had her back (whatever his motivations).

The party bothers me, as does the talk of a movie at this time, but we need to get the facts before slamming Clive. It's all gossip right now. Let's wait, listen and see. People will reveal themselves. It will all come out in the end 'cause somebody close to Whitney has been yapping to the press for the past several years and they ain't gonna stop now.

#17 dablack11

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Posted 27 February 2012 - 11:25 PM

Lets keep in mind here that everyone feels differently about the loss of Whitney Houston, so whatever it takes to vent and get stuff of their chest, lets just all agree to disagree on how people should feel.

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 02:27 AM

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 08:06 AM

Guys, you are taking a blogger's rumor and taking it like its the truth. With the exception of that blog, no one mentioned anything about a Whitney movie, and fast track or not, as long as the Whitney estate don't approve it, it won't go forward.

Now I am not a fan of the Pregrammy party going forward, but I can't hate on Clive.
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#20 truthspeaker06

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 10:14 AM

View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 27 February 2012 - 10:34 PM, said:

You know what, I keep staying out of the Clive stuff but I find it odd that everyone is suddenly down Clive's back. This man has had Whitney's back through all the hell and all of it. Just because 1) Clive made a statement about not doing another album untill she could knock everyone out again is not a big deal. You wanna castrate someone for that, start with your family at home (on Whitney-Fan.com. We're all guility of wanting better vocally from Whitney) 2) Clive Davis' name is the only thing in control of that party now. A major corporate conglomerate doesn't just add their name to a party for the sake of BLEEP! and giggles and titles. It's all finanical. Clive doesn't pay for that party entirely out of pocket anymore, it's shared now with NARAS. Trust had Clive paid for that party and could make the shots, that party woulda been cancelled the second he heard. I think people need to get the BLEEP! off Clive's back in all honest about the party. EVERYONE.

Secondly - If the movie rumors are true it makes sense. One of the 100,000 thoughts that went through my head during those first few days was if Clive was gonna jump on the movie production so HE could have control of it so it wasn't a 2 hr movie about BBB & Drug Usuage as the entire world seems to want to focus on the legacy of Whitney Houston. He prolly wants his name on it from the get go so that it can be done the way IT SHOULD BE DONE. Be about the voice, the artistry, the icon, the phenomena. Not the drug addiction and tumultuous marriage that media likes to stay hard about.

Thirdly - His comments were not that strange at the funeral. Everyone deals with death differently. I didn't wanna belive it was all real untill I had to at 12pm, Saturday February 18. At 3:30 PM I watched Whitney's casket be taken off the camera. That's when it was too real for comfort. Whitney & Clive's industry relationship is a legacy in itself. The both of them loved each other very very much.

Lastly I just don't think it's fair that her fans are going for someone she loved so much after she's dead. While all her fans were talking BLEEP! about her voice on the album and how she needs to do A,B,C to X,Y,Z Clive stood there in front of the entire industry and continually gave Whitney the props she deserved and BLEEP! earned. That funeral chat was disrespectable as Rhianna would say on GOT 2 BE REAL. I stopped paying attention anyhow. Should I think none of us are fans because people were having a good old time talking BLEEP! on Clive and everyone else? NO. We all grieve differently. Some are blasting Whitney's music, others can't stand the thought of hearing her in their head let alone blasting her on 40dbz. His controbution at the funeral was a mixed bag and rightfully so. He loved her beyond a business relationship; but also that's their history. I thought what he said was good. I liked that he kept defending her legacy. He's like the one guy always out there having her back for 30 years and couple things open to interpretation and folks wanna start hating on Clive. Ridiculous guys, c'mon!!

I don't think it's nice, I don't think it's fair to suddenly start hating on people because they want someone to be pissed off at because Whitney's dead. I'm pissed off too, I'm taking it out on all the morons in the world that are steppin on my toes the wrong way. I'm not gonna single out someone to vent about.

I don't think Clive is picture perfect either, however I do think it's BLEEP! to see Whitney fans suddenly all bent out of shape over him. The same BLEEP! y'all are doing is the same BLEEP! people did/doing to Whitney. Jumping to conclusions based on BLEEP!. We can jump to conclusions here about Whitney because at least we have enough 411 to put the pieces together (like her really wanting to comeback strong vocally, like her leaving Bobby before the NE article even came out in Mar 06, etc etc etc). I just think it's a big disservice to Whitney.

I'm too upset about Whitney though to put any real effort into my opinions. This is what I have to say about it all and I'm not up for discussing it. Just putting it out there.

I have to say I agree with most of what you just said.
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#21 richardlondon

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 11:56 AM

I believe we have to accept that whilst some of Clive's actions and behaviour may be interpreted as commercial rather then emotional, bare in mind that was his job and role in her life. Also any success that he is able to generate from her legacy is likely to benefit her estate, and i would rather he was the mastermind behind it then some other money maker, of which there will be many.

ALSO

I bet she put him through it. I imagine he would have done everything possible to protect her.

However...business is business. Personally i see that when Jacko, Wino and Houston died the record company makes a lot of money very quickly. There is a difference between killing someone and allowing them enough rope...

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 12:25 PM

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Hey, everybody.

I think we're all having a hard time with our loss and the response is to look for a pound of flesh. I'm worried more about each of you than what Clive is doing or not doing. I came into this thread ready to side with those against Clive, but I'm beginning to accept that what will be will be. As much as Whitney means to me, there will be others who will seek to fill their pain centers with the worst about her. I won't be able to stop them. I will play and sing her songs. I will remember her telling me she loved me, how she smelled, looked, and felt when we met. I'll come here and see that I'm not the only one she touched. I refuse to mix my grief at her loss and anger at her trespassers with my joy in her beauty and art. Every project they release that is good for her legacy I will support. Each one that is not won't get my money.

I hope we're all doing what we can to take care of ourselves during this difficult time.

#23 CoNcLusIveTrUthZ

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 02:39 PM

View Postdablack11, on 27 February 2012 - 10:44 PM, said:

View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 27 February 2012 - 10:34 PM, said:

You know what, I keep staying out of the Clive stuff but I find it odd that everyone is suddenly down Clive's back. This man has had Whitney's back through all the hell and all of it. Just because 1) Clive made a statement about not doing another album untill she could knock everyone out again is not a big deal. You wanna castrate someone for that, start with your family at home (on Whitney-Fan.com. We're all guility of wanting better vocally from Whitney) 2) Clive Davis' name is the only thing in control of that party now. A major corporate conglomerate doesn't just add their name to a party for the sake of BLEEP! and giggles and titles. It's all finanical. Clive doesn't pay for that party entirely out of pocket anymore, it's shared now with NARAS. Trust had Clive paid for that party and could make the shots, that party woulda been cancelled the second he heard. I think people need to get the BLEEP! off Clive's back in all honest about the party. EVERYONE.

Secondly - If the movie rumors are true it makes sense. One of the 100,000 thoughts that went through my head during those first few days was if Clive was gonna jump on the movie production so HE could have control of it so it wasn't a 2 hr movie about BBB & Drug Usuage as the entire world seems to want to focus on the legacy of Whitney Houston. He prolly wants his name on it from the get go so that it can be done the way IT SHOULD BE DONE. Be about the voice, the artistry, the icon, the phenomena. Not the drug addiction and tumultuous marriage that media likes to stay hard about.

Thirdly - His comments were not that strange at the funeral. Everyone deals with death differently. I didn't wanna belive it was all real untill I had to at 12pm, Saturday February 18. At 3:30 PM I watched Whitney's casket be taken off the camera. That's when it was too real for comfort. Whitney & Clive's industry relationship is a legacy in itself. The both of them loved each other very very much.

Lastly I just don't think it's fair that her fans are going for someone she loved so much after she's dead. While all her fans were talking BLEEP! about her voice on the album and how she needs to do A,B,C to X,Y,Z Clive stood there in front of the entire industry and continually gave Whitney the props she deserved and BLEEP! earned. That funeral chat was disrespectable as Rhianna would say on GOT 2 BE REAL. I stopped paying attention anyhow. Should I think none of us are fans because people were having a good old time talking BLEEP! on Clive and everyone else? NO. We all grieve differently. Some are blasting Whitney's music, others can't stand the thought of hearing her in their head let alone blasting her on 40dbz. His controbution at the funeral was a mixed bag and rightfully so. He loved her beyond a business relationship; but also that's their history. I thought what he said was good. I liked that he kept defending her legacy. He's like the one guy always out there having her back for 30 years and couple things open to interpretation and folks wanna start hating on Clive. Ridiculous guys, c'mon!!

I don't think it's nice, I don't think it's fair to suddenly start hating on people because they want someone to be pissed off at because Whitney's dead. I'm pissed off too, I'm taking it out on all the morons in the world that are steppin on my toes the wrong way. I'm not gonna single out someone to vent about.

I don't think Clive is picture perfect either, however I do think it's BLEEP! to see Whitney fans suddenly all bent out of shape over him. The same BLEEP! y'all are doing is the same BLEEP! people did/doing to Whitney. Jumping to conclusions based on BLEEP!. We can jump to conclusions here about Whitney because at least we have enough 411 to put the pieces together (like her really wanting to comeback strong vocally, like her leaving Bobby before the NE article even came out in Mar 06, etc etc etc). I just think it's a big disservice to Whitney.

I'm too upset about Whitney though to put any real effort into my opinions. This is what I have to say about it all and I'm not up for discussing it. Just putting it out there.

I know your response wasnt geared towards me personally, but I stated my reasons for not feeling Clive too much, and it has nothing to do with all the other stuff, I just find it hard to believe that you did not break down when the woman you were supposed to walk the damn red carpet with is dead. This is someone who's back you've had throughout the years and all the other points you mentioned, she is dead, and you did not cry??? I'm sorry, but that is unacceptable. Maybe he held it together for the party, maybe he did cry in private, i dont know, but what I do know is that he did not show anything that night while he made his speech.

My father shed one tear at his fathers funeral. A single tear during the wake. When everyone left he broke down at the casket. When we were home he cried in his room non stop. Some men are forced as they grow up to not show emotion because its' weak, gay, etc etc. all the stupid BLEEP! you can come up with. They're usually the first ones hitting the bottle or their wives because they're taught not to show emotion publically becuase it's not qoute on qoute "manly". Clive was prolly brought up that way. However, some women don't show emotion in public either. Can't go hating clive because he didn't pass out at the podium either.

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#24 truthspeaker06

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 02:51 PM

View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 28 February 2012 - 02:39 PM, said:

View Postdablack11, on 27 February 2012 - 10:44 PM, said:

View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 27 February 2012 - 10:34 PM, said:

You know what, I keep staying out of the Clive stuff but I find it odd that everyone is suddenly down Clive's back. This man has had Whitney's back through all the hell and all of it. Just because 1) Clive made a statement about not doing another album untill she could knock everyone out again is not a big deal. You wanna castrate someone for that, start with your family at home (on Whitney-Fan.com. We're all guility of wanting better vocally from Whitney) 2) Clive Davis' name is the only thing in control of that party now. A major corporate conglomerate doesn't just add their name to a party for the sake of BLEEP! and giggles and titles. It's all finanical. Clive doesn't pay for that party entirely out of pocket anymore, it's shared now with NARAS. Trust had Clive paid for that party and could make the shots, that party woulda been cancelled the second he heard. I think people need to get the BLEEP! off Clive's back in all honest about the party. EVERYONE.

Secondly - If the movie rumors are true it makes sense. One of the 100,000 thoughts that went through my head during those first few days was if Clive was gonna jump on the movie production so HE could have control of it so it wasn't a 2 hr movie about BBB & Drug Usuage as the entire world seems to want to focus on the legacy of Whitney Houston. He prolly wants his name on it from the get go so that it can be done the way IT SHOULD BE DONE. Be about the voice, the artistry, the icon, the phenomena. Not the drug addiction and tumultuous marriage that media likes to stay hard about.

Thirdly - His comments were not that strange at the funeral. Everyone deals with death differently. I didn't wanna belive it was all real untill I had to at 12pm, Saturday February 18. At 3:30 PM I watched Whitney's casket be taken off the camera. That's when it was too real for comfort. Whitney & Clive's industry relationship is a legacy in itself. The both of them loved each other very very much.

Lastly I just don't think it's fair that her fans are going for someone she loved so much after she's dead. While all her fans were talking BLEEP! about her voice on the album and how she needs to do A,B,C to X,Y,Z Clive stood there in front of the entire industry and continually gave Whitney the props she deserved and BLEEP! earned. That funeral chat was disrespectable as Rhianna would say on GOT 2 BE REAL. I stopped paying attention anyhow. Should I think none of us are fans because people were having a good old time talking BLEEP! on Clive and everyone else? NO. We all grieve differently. Some are blasting Whitney's music, others can't stand the thought of hearing her in their head let alone blasting her on 40dbz. His controbution at the funeral was a mixed bag and rightfully so. He loved her beyond a business relationship; but also that's their history. I thought what he said was good. I liked that he kept defending her legacy. He's like the one guy always out there having her back for 30 years and couple things open to interpretation and folks wanna start hating on Clive. Ridiculous guys, c'mon!!

I don't think it's nice, I don't think it's fair to suddenly start hating on people because they want someone to be pissed off at because Whitney's dead. I'm pissed off too, I'm taking it out on all the morons in the world that are steppin on my toes the wrong way. I'm not gonna single out someone to vent about.

I don't think Clive is picture perfect either, however I do think it's BLEEP! to see Whitney fans suddenly all bent out of shape over him. The same BLEEP! y'all are doing is the same BLEEP! people did/doing to Whitney. Jumping to conclusions based on BLEEP!. We can jump to conclusions here about Whitney because at least we have enough 411 to put the pieces together (like her really wanting to comeback strong vocally, like her leaving Bobby before the NE article even came out in Mar 06, etc etc etc). I just think it's a big disservice to Whitney.

I'm too upset about Whitney though to put any real effort into my opinions. This is what I have to say about it all and I'm not up for discussing it. Just putting it out there.

I know your response wasnt geared towards me personally, but I stated my reasons for not feeling Clive too much, and it has nothing to do with all the other stuff, I just find it hard to believe that you did not break down when the woman you were supposed to walk the damn red carpet with is dead. This is someone who's back you've had throughout the years and all the other points you mentioned, she is dead, and you did not cry??? I'm sorry, but that is unacceptable. Maybe he held it together for the party, maybe he did cry in private, i dont know, but what I do know is that he did not show anything that night while he made his speech.

My father shed one tear at his fathers funeral. A single tear during the wake. When everyone left he broke down at the casket. When we were home he cried in his room non stop. Some men are forced as they grow up to not show emotion because its' weak, gay, etc etc. all the stupid BLEEP! you can come up with. They're usually the first ones hitting the bottle or their wives because they're taught not to show emotion publically becuase it's not qoute on qoute "manly". Clive was prolly brought up that way. However, some women don't show emotion in public either. Can't go hating clive because he didn't pass out at the podium either.

Just to piggy back of what Conclu said, It's very true. As a man & this is coming directly as a personal thing, I try not to cry in front of people. I mean I try HARD. The fact that Kisha & Terrence & Bobby saw me crying is something not even my closest friends have seen other than ONE time. Even the night we were outside the church crying, I think I was the only one who walked away & sat by myself & cried. & when we walked back to the car, I walked ahead of everyone else so I could cry by myself.

IDK where it comes from, but as a child, I NEVER saw the men in my life cry so I grew up thinking Men don't cry & if they do cry, they don't let people see them cry & that has been something that unfortunately I've adapted to & now life with. This need to be strong & keep on a "face" & thinking It's alright for everyone else to cry, but I've got to be that shoulder to lean on! but me? Cry? In front of people? Nah not something I'm good at.

I say all that to say I could never blame or hate Clive for not crying & falling out when she passed. We don't know what's going on behind closed doors & for all we know Clive coulda cried buckets of tears that we'll never see them.
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Posted 28 February 2012 - 02:52 PM

View PostCoNcLusIveTrUthZ, on 27 February 2012 - 10:34 PM, said:

You know what, I keep staying out of the Clive stuff but I find it odd that everyone is suddenly down Clive's back. This man has had Whitney's back through all the hell and all of it. Just because 1) Clive made a statement about not doing another album untill she could knock everyone out again is not a big deal. You wanna castrate someone for that, start with your family at home (on Whitney-Fan.com. We're all guility of wanting better vocally from Whitney) 2) Clive Davis' name is the only thing in control of that party now. A major corporate conglomerate doesn't just add their name to a party for the sake of BLEEP! and giggles and titles. It's all finanical. Clive doesn't pay for that party entirely out of pocket anymore, it's shared now with NARAS. Trust had Clive paid for that party and could make the shots, that party woulda been cancelled the second he heard. I think people need to get the BLEEP! off Clive's back in all honest about the party. EVERYONE.

Secondly - If the movie rumors are true it makes sense. One of the 100,000 thoughts that went through my head during those first few days was if Clive was gonna jump on the movie production so HE could have control of it so it wasn't a 2 hr movie about BBB & Drug Usuage as the entire world seems to want to focus on the legacy of Whitney Houston. He prolly wants his name on it from the get go so that it can be done the way IT SHOULD BE DONE. Be about the voice, the artistry, the icon, the phenomena. Not the drug addiction and tumultuous marriage that media likes to stay hard about.

Thirdly - His comments were not that strange at the funeral. Everyone deals with death differently. I didn't wanna belive it was all real untill I had to at 12pm, Saturday February 18. At 3:30 PM I watched Whitney's casket be taken off the camera. That's when it was too real for comfort. Whitney & Clive's industry relationship is a legacy in itself. The both of them loved each other very very much.

Lastly I just don't think it's fair that her fans are going for someone she loved so much after she's dead. While all her fans were talking BLEEP! about her voice on the album and how she needs to do A,B,C to X,Y,Z Clive stood there in front of the entire industry and continually gave Whitney the props she deserved and BLEEP! earned. That funeral chat was disrespectable as Rhianna would say on GOT 2 BE REAL. I stopped paying attention anyhow. Should I think none of us are fans because people were having a good old time talking BLEEP! on Clive and everyone else? NO. We all grieve differently. Some are blasting Whitney's music, others can't stand the thought of hearing her in their head let alone blasting her on 40dbz. His controbution at the funeral was a mixed bag and rightfully so. He loved her beyond a business relationship; but also that's their history. I thought what he said was good. I liked that he kept defending her legacy. He's like the one guy always out there having her back for 30 years and couple things open to interpretation and folks wanna start hating on Clive. Ridiculous guys, c'mon!!

I don't think it's nice, I don't think it's fair to suddenly start hating on people because they want someone to be pissed off at because Whitney's dead. I'm pissed off too, I'm taking it out on all the morons in the world that are steppin on my toes the wrong way. I'm not gonna single out someone to vent about.

I don't think Clive is picture perfect either, however I do think it's BLEEP! to see Whitney fans suddenly all bent out of shape over him. The same BLEEP! y'all are doing is the same BLEEP! people did/doing to Whitney. Jumping to conclusions based on BLEEP!. We can jump to conclusions here about Whitney because at least we have enough 411 to put the pieces together (like her really wanting to comeback strong vocally, like her leaving Bobby before the NE article even came out in Mar 06, etc etc etc). I just think it's a big disservice to Whitney.

I'm too upset about Whitney though to put any real effort into my opinions. This is what I have to say about it all and I'm not up for discussing it. Just putting it out there.

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#26 Simplicity

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 04:00 PM

I think Clive loves Whitney dearly and she loves him. Would Whitney want the pre-grammy show to go on ... of course she would! Would most of us be willing to let the show go on ... probably not. But that show is a business as well and Clive is a business man.

Clive spoke about Whitney's records at her funeral because that's how Clive always speaks of Whitney. I think he loves Whitney's voice more than any of us could imagine.

Clive is an elderly man... he has seen many ppl pass in his lifetime some i am sure he loved more than Whitney.
i know it sounds a bit silly to say but death don't affect old people like it does to the younger generation.

i do agree that it's too early to talk about making a movie about Whitney's life. Other than Whitney's immediate family who else would i want to make a movie, non other than Clive. I think he would focus on her music ability than anything else and he would let her shine in the eyes of the world.

it's a bit synical but... well maybe Clive Davis wants to do this movie asap as a tribute to whitney because he himself aint that young :shrug:
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#27 Joleen

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 04:34 PM

Interesting theories on Clive. I always felt that he loved her and I believe he is hurting greatly right now. If her family didn’t think he cared for her he wouldn’t be as close as he is with them. Media exaggerates so much! And Whitney, she was tough and smart. Would their relationship have lasted that long if his intentions were not good? No he loved her. And that’s a good point about the fact that he believed in her even when she was down. Some record companies could care less. They’d drop an artist or have them take a break and breath down their back about getting back on top. He didn’t focus on her weaknesses. And it was her that went to him to tell him that she was going to get her voice back. I think he respected her so much.

I am sure he will miss their little get together’s in the middle of the night in their jammies just listening to songs and working. But they have so many memories and he will probably think of that daily. The party is the only thing that rubbed me wrong. I’ll have to go with the comment about him being elderly. His view on life may be different than it was 30 years ago. And like others said he might be grieving privately about it. I am the same way with these things. I find it hard to express my emotions around others which is why I said that when all of my friends left I then was able to cry about Whitney.

I don’t fault anybody who is angry about his actions because you’re hurting and you should be able to vent if you want. I don’t have any problems with it even if I disagree.

#28 dablack11

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 06:27 PM

As men we are taught not to cry, I understand that... but if my son, my mama, sisters, grandma, or others close to me pass away, trust me I will become 6'6 250lb big black crybaby lol. I guess people are just different when they greive, and I'll just leave it at that.

#29 John-John

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 06:31 PM

View PostJoleen, on 28 February 2012 - 04:34 PM, said:


I don’t fault anybody who is angry about his actions because you’re hurting and you should be able to vent if you want. I don’t have any problems with it even if I disagree.

Great point! I can't remember who said earlier that this should be a safe place to express ourselves & deal with grief. I respect those who don't have a problem with Clive. I do agree people are different in how they demonstrate grief. Not a problem. I agree. One thing I want to clarify: I don't believe Clive is now "the bad guy" or that he didn't in fact love Whitney. People's characters are almost never all villainous or all saintly. As a person who has vigorously defended Clive in the past I just think my eyes opened up a bit. First & foremost he's a businessman & their relationship was founded on business.

That said nobody is better capable of helping to preserve her legacy as The Voice that built Arista.

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss


#30 atang245

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Posted 28 February 2012 - 10:07 PM

I don't like Clive. I think he is a user. I think Whitney tried to break from him as indicate by her interview with Diane Swayer. I think he blackball her music career when they broke their relationship; she came back to him so he would stop. Most of his wealth is probably attribute to Whitney album sells.





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